Fuck Buddy?

Have you ever read the Urban Dictionary? They've got some asinine ideas and even more asinine words. Of course because of the change in our society there apparently is a need for new words to better explain the differences in the old ways of doing things.Some of the old words we're used to don't adequately describe certain modern actions.
Let's take a good look at the definition for "fuck buddy".

Fuck Buddy had several, several definitions. My favorite ones are below...

1.noun. A person you pretend to like, but really only use them for sex and other sexual pleasures.

2.noun. A sex partner to whom you have no special attachment. A person you occasionally have sex with who is not your significant other.

Hmmm....so a fuck buddy is someone you have sex with and that's it? No phone calls or interest in anything else about your life? You get a phone call for a blow job and you leap into your car to go and take care of business and then leave when the deed is done, not expecting as much as an email or phone call?

I guess I'm not wired like that. I need to have an emotional relationship with someone in order to have sex with them. I need a friendship with mutual concern and interest.

There is also "booty call"...

1.noun.a guy or a girl who calls you only for some pussy or dick! No strings attached.

Mind blowing! I guess I'm just not with the times. Even if you're fucking someone mostly for sex, don't you still have at least a friendship? Shouldn't it be important to know something about each other on a non-sexual level?
If I were in a relationship where I was only called for sex, I'd feel like a whore. I'd feel used. I'd feel worthless.

I certainly hope my daughters think more of themselves than to allow someone to use them just for sex. And my son had NEVER better take advantage of some girl just so he can get laid.
Don't people hold any value anymore?
I need to feel valued.
Who doesn't?

I'm in kind of a weird mood this morning. I felt like shit last night so I went to bed early. When I got home after taking the kids to school, I still felt exhausted so I went back to bed to take a little nap.
I slept for three more hours.
Wow!
I had this really stupid dream too. I dreamed I was the lead in a play and right before I was supposed to go on stage I realized that I didn't know any of my lines. I wasn't prepared at all. The crazy part of it is that I wasn't even stressed about it. I was just like, oh well...I'll wing it. It'll be fine.
I was, however, mad at myself for not learning the lines. I just couldn't believe what an idiot I had been to just not do it.

Stupid dreams...

Last night at Krogers some guy in a van pulled up to me and started asking me if he knew me,etc...because he said I looked familiar. He asked if I lived in Dunbar, if I was married (I checked and my pants were zipped so I told him yes) and without being terrible rude, I gave him as little information about myself as I could. He was VERY inquisitive and truthfully it freaked me out a bit.
At first I thought maybe it was someone who reads the WVSR or even my blog and they recognized my picture...but then when he kept asking me stuff and asked if I was married, well...then I changed my mind about that.
So if you see me out somewhere, feel free to come talk to me, but please tell me if you know me from here or Jeff's site. It would make me feel a little more at ease. My underwear don't feel so comfortable when they've been sucked into my ass.

The word of the day is "whore".
I'm a whore... a carpool whore (no one calls me unless they need a ride)...cake whore(I only get called when they need me to bake a cake)...a blow job whore (they only call me when they want a blow job)...er....HAHAHA...LOL...
Actually I over heard Veggie Stick talking about some girl at school and using the whore word repeatedly. I warned her to stop, but this will ensure she doesn't use it again today. Once she gets the word of the day, she doesn't say it again..almost never! A smart little chick, that Veggie Stick.

I know I was lazy and didn't post much for pictures, but maybe this will make up for it?



My mood for the day is indescribable so I just threw that collage of me at my me-ness for your amusement.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!